~ OUR PHILOSOPHY ~
Sometimes we get stuck in a place that is
difficult to get out of, or we have tried the same things over and over to no
avail. That is where counseling, or psychotherapy, come in. We will help look at
whatever it is you are struggling to overcome, and work with you on your journey
to finding solutions. Let us work diligently with you on your issues of
concern.
People vary in the ways that they learn and the pace at which
they progress. These factors are taken into consideration when you initially
meet with a counselor. A therapist will work with you to help identify your
problem areas, develop a plan for treatment, then guide you toward achieving
your goals.
Every client is unique, and that is what makes counseling so
stimulating and challenging. In terms of therapeutic technique and strategy, one
size definitely does not fit all. The counselor must be skilled at tailoring
his/her theoretical method to match the client in the moment. Our
client-centered philosophy endeavors to help clients recognize the deeper issues
that are fueling the symptoms that clients oftentimes come to counseling to
address. Feeling comfortable with a therapist is important in making changes. As
you become more comfortable with the therapist you are working with, you should
be able to be more open about deeper issues that you have and deeper emotions
that you may be feeling. Therapists at our office show mutual respect,
authenticity, genuineness, ability to empathize, acceptance, and unconditional
positive regard for the client. We work very hard at cultivating and nurturing a
strong, healthy, working relationship with clients.
Counseling is a journey of self-exploration by the client, meant to increase his/her level of
self-understanding and self-awareness. The therapist acts as the guide or
facilitator of this journey. By helping you to cope with the issues that you are
dealing with, you are able to better remedy future issues by yourself through
the skills and insight you learn.
We fully explore the issues to increase understanding; and based on this increased understanding, the client is
encouraged to take some action, which means that he/she will make changes. Yet,
as human beings, we generally do not embrace this idea of change. We prefer to
remain in our "comfort zone". The paradox may be that this "comfort zone", which
is supposed to provide safety and security, is
in fact causing some level of suffering. This suffering is the catalyst for
seeking out counseling.
We emphasize the client's resources for becoming
self-aware and for resolving blocks to personal growth. Additionally, we allow
and encourage for the client to determine the direction of therapy and put the
client (not the therapist) at the center of therapy. Our therapy also helps
clients better understand the connection between how they interpret events and
how they feel and act toward those events. Counseling may involve challenging
and changing mistaken notions, faulty assumptions, irrational thoughts, and
maladaptive beliefs.